Welcome Ben. Your situation is one where though I love my i, I'd lean towards the LEAF. Having a 2013+ model with the onboard 6.6 kW onboard charger or an earlier model upgraded with the secondary Brusa charger essentially doubles your Level 2 charging speed from 15 mph to 30 mph.
Other than saia47, who has added input from a Manzanita Micro secondary charger by wiring directly to the traction battery and bypassing most of the OEM safeties,
http://www.manzanitamicro.com/products?page=shop.browse&category_id=14&vmcchk=1 I know of nobody who's increased the L2 charging speed beyond 16 amps/3.3 kW.
Where CHAdeMO is available, it is invaluable. I traded in my first iMiEV in order to gain CHAdeMO, and having an L3 station along one of our regular local routes means that my family circus no longer switches cars halfway through a typical Saturday, having exhausted the MiEV. On a related note, the LEAF actually performs worse going down the West Coast Electric Highway (Interstate 5). Fast Charge station spacing is such that a LEAF cannot skip a station without heroic measures, but they take 50% more time for a fast charge than the i-MiEV does! Between Seattle and Portland, I and my i can speed like a maniac if I want to to leapfrog a LEAF between stations, and reduce the trip time by at least 30 minutes in the process! (DCFC lineups are now common at peak periods in Washington, since essentially no stations have been added since 2012, so on a highway trip you get to know your fellow EV'ers who are travelling the same direction at the same time).
Now for some EVen more SWOT ramblings....
Of course, if you're inclined towards mechanical creativity, or EVen better yet, electrical assembly and software hacking, the i-MiEV makes the most affordable platform to play with, in addition to being more 'hackable' than a LEAF or most other EVs. Now that my pusher trailer is operable, I wouldn't hesitate to embark on a long journey in any direction, albeit at barely more than 20 mpg. The main obstacle to increased pusher usage is that electrical range is compromised by perhaps 40% when pulling the dormant pusher, and in mixed city/highway use, it is a hassle to frequently switch modes. Of course, my choice of an aircooled VW with manual transmission is a big part of that. Pushing is otherwise so much fun... :twisted: .. that I am sorely tempted to build another with an automatic Geo Metro drivetrain, for more seamless transitions between dormant pulling and active pushing.