That can all be done. The apps I use are:
Impel - Automatic Tasks - https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.phase2i.impel
Screen Timeout Switch - apparently no longer available on Google Play, as soon as I remember how to back up an app, I'll post a dropbox link here where you can download and install the app.
Drive Autosync - https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.ttxapps.drivesync
For syncing to your computer, you can use Google Drive. You should already have Google Drive as part of your Android account. To get it to sync a folder automatically, download Drive Autosync onto your tablet, sign in, and select the BT_CAN folder. Enable Autosync and Instant Upload. Set the power source to AC/USB/Battery so that it will sync any time it is connected to WiFi. If you are worried or have issues with battery life, you tell the app to sync only above a certain battery charge level (mine is set to >60%). Finally, add your network SSID to the allowed wifi networks list. It will now only sync over your home network (unless you manually connected the tablet to other networks, it will only connect to your home network anyway).
On your computer, download and install Google Drive. Sign in with the same account as your tablet. After your tablet syncs, the BT_CAN folder should show up in your Google Drive folder. The tablet will sync with Google, which also syncs your PC when it is online.
For the Impel Tasks, I have the following set up:
1. Enable Bluetooth and Start CaniOn. Trigger is Power is Connected.
2. Disable Bluetooth. Trigger is Power is Disconnected. I also have the Auto Close setting in CaniOn enabled.
3. (for convenience) Set Screen Brightness to 80%. Trigger is time, set at 7:30 AM.
4. (for convenience) Set Screen Brightness to 20%. Trigger is time, set at 8:00 PM.
You could copy my tasks, or customize them if you have a set schedule of when you first use the car. You can use a time trigger to enable Bluetooth instead of power trigger so CaniOn has an easier time connecting to the OBDLink. Each task is capable of performing multiple operations. You could set one for 10-15 minutes before you use the car every day to turn on bluetooth and set a certain screen brightness, another task to turn bluetooth off in the evening and also turn on WiFi for database sync, then at midnight turn off WiFi. It's all up to you.
I have screen timeout switch set up for screen timeout of 15 seconds when power disconnected, and 30 minutes when power is connected. CaniOn keeps the screen on, but this setting is useful when other apps are open instead of CaniOn (Maps/Navigation for example).
I will be glad to answer any questions you have about this process.