It is true that any source must be fused (or breakered) for the size of the wire downstream of the fuse in order to meet code - No argument there. It's the 'law' and for good reason
When I added the third EVSE in my garage after we bought the Chevy Volt, I planned to power it using the 6-50 outlet which is breakered at 40 amps that my wife's ceramic kiln runs off of. She uses the kiln only once or twice a year, so plugging and unplugging would seldom be a problem. One of my other EVSE's runs off a 20 amp, 240 volt outlet in the far wall used for an air conditioner. I probably only use that garage air conditioner 3 or 4 times per year and unplugging the EVSE pigtail to plug in the A/C isn't any hassle. For this latest one, I made about a 6 foot pigtail which runs from the outlet up to near the ceiling in my workshop where the kiln is located and I mounted a pair of ceramic fuse holders with 20 amp fuses for the 12/3 line which runs out into the garage to the plug for the EVSE. The installation may or may not meet the 'letter' of the code, but it's completely safe and that's the important part
If it was just a 30 amp dryer outlet, I don't think I wouldn't have bothered. Short out a 12 gauge extension cord and you will trip a 30 amp breaker or blow a 30 amp fuse almost instantly, long before the conductors in the extension cord even have a chance to get warm, let alone hot. But . . . . who is to say that someday down the road, someone might plug in a 16 gauge extension cord and have a problem?? You could maybe melt something with a lighter gauge cord. THAT'S WHY THERE ARE CODES. Things need to be safe no mater what happens and that's why the code book is full of absolute, unbreakable rules . . . . to protect the unwary from themselves
I did make a 240 volt extension cord to go with my adapter kit by buying a high quality 120 volt 12/3 cord with wire rated for 300 volts, cutting the ends off and installing L6-20 connectors on both ends. Since none of my 3 cars can draw more than 15 amps, I used L6-20 ends on all my adapters. It all began when EVSE Upgrade shipped my OEM unit back with an L6-20 plug on it. Later on, they switched to using L6-30 connectors, as they are about the same size, cost about the same but are rated for 30 amps which gives you larger connector pins, which is always a good idea. NEMA 5-15 connectors may be rated for 15 amps, but they are a poor choice for anything that will be drawing 12 to 15 amps for hours on end - No matter how new or quality the connectors are, they will get warm and eventually they will cause you problems as they age and wear
Don