I just watched the video I recorded when first using an Eaton unit.
Mine will do safety checks, ramp the voltage up to 450 volts, drop to near zero, then come up to the car's voltage as the display changes to the red battery charge gauge. Current then ramps up as the car starts charging. I believe this is when the contactor in the car is engaged, and sounds like this is when the breaker trips. If the polarity is backwards, that is a total of over 650 volts (charger's +330 combined with the car's alleged -330 volts) between the car and charger. If both car and charger have +330 volts as would be normal, there would be no current flow between them. Current flows to the car when the charger starts to lift its output voltage. As instructed by the car, the charger will try to bring the battery to 361 volts, allowing up to 125 amps to do that. Once the battery reaches 361 volts, fewer and fewer amps are then required to maintain that voltage.
Think of this like accelerating. We push the throttle to send 100 amps to the motor (amps of charging power equivalent) to bring the car up to 50 mph (desired voltage is equal to desired speed). As we reach that speed, fewer amps are required, so we cut back on the throttle input to avoid overshooting our speed (amperage cuts back as the battery reaches its target voltage so to not overshoot the target).
If the polarity of the car side of the CHAdeMO port is backwards, the charger would discharge the pack completely and reverse charge it to -360 volts. That is hypothetical of course. The safety features (circuit breaker, mainly) prevent that from happening, plus the battery would most likely explode if it were reverse charged like that.
A reversed connection may not be the only cause, but it's the only thing that I can think of. Unless the CHAdeMO port is shorted somewhere. Either way, I don't think it is wired correctly on the car, since other vehicles charge without issue. I think a visit to your favorite (local) dealer is appropriate.